Saturday, October 31, 2009

Our Little Cinderella





Helena woke one morning and exclaimed "Mommy! I forgot to tell you! My school has this thing... it's called Halloween! Do you know what that is Mommy??"

"What's that?" I asked.

Then with one breathe she exclaimed "We-get-to-dress-up-in-costumes-and-go-on-a-parade-and-I'm-going-to-be-a-Disney-princess-and-do-you-know-which-one-I'm-going-to-be-I'm-going-to-be-Cinderella-Mommy!" (deep inhale...)

So here's our little Cinderella at home on the big day, in front of our waterfall, and with her trusty (old, ratty) pig Wilbur no less....

She Danced and Skipped For Most all of the Parade - True Princess Style




Here's One Princess That Does *NOT* Need Rescuing!


LOVE that strong, confident walk haha....

Princess at Play (love the hide & seek!)






Group Photos, (Her Class and Entire School)



















Yes, that's my daughter, front and center with hands on the hips (don't think she's noticed she's the smallest one).

The Princess Socializing



Sunday, October 11, 2009

Helena's Adventures with Food

My precocious daughter is having food tolerance lessons she's learned at home reinforced at preschool....

First she asks the teacher if she's sure the apple she's giving Helena is the organic one. (We send Helena with her own food as she eats very differently than other children.) Then Helena proceeds to inform the other children that they shouldn't be eating their apples because they are not organic like hers.

Her wonderful teacher Miss Lorraine explains that different people choose different ways in which to be healthy and that while Helena is right and organic is the best option, it's still ok for the kids to eat their apples - they are after all healthy fruit.

Next comes lunch at which time Helena decides she is offended that the kids are eating meat. She doesn't want to have to see their turkey sandwiches! Lorraine explains that we have to respect other people's food choices and they like turkey. However, Helena is welcome to sit at the kitchen counter instead if it bothers her to see the meat. She chooses to remain with the other kids, little social butterfly that she is.

Lorraine told me later she was wondering if perhaps she had explained away organics too well. Helena and Lorraine's daughter were whispering and Lorraine came by to see what was going on. Helena wanted to know if the peanut butter cookies were organic. She decided she'd have one so long as the other girl didn't tell anyone, espec "my mommy or daddy". Lorraine was quick to explain that we don't EVER keep secrets from our mommies or daddies as that isn't safe.

OYE! I wasn't sure if I should laugh or be terribly embarrassed, so it was a combination of the two!

Saturday, October 10, 2009

When She Grows Up...

Helena wants to be 3 things when she grows up, a writer, a bonnet maker, and a jewelry maker. She insists that I will have to wear her bonnets. I compromised and promised her I'd wear it to the old fashioned farmer's museum not too far from us haha.

So a few wks ago, Helena comes to me with the utmost of seriousness... "Mommy, I have to ask you something very important."

"Ok, what's that?"

"Do you think that when I'm all grown up, you guys could watch my kids for me? Because I might want to still be working, and I'll need someone to watch them."

"Sure, I bet we could probably do that for you."

"Oh good ((big sigh of relief)) because I want to still work, and if I"m upstairs in my attic writing, then they might fall down the stairs, or get into mischief or be naughty or something - and that wouldn't be good!"

Now I just want to know where in the world she came up with the whole attic writing studio concept... we have never even lived anywhere with a walk-up attic....

Learning to Read

I'm fascinated by Helena's self initiated learning to read process. I had been thinking to start working more consistently with her on things, but I'm way too fascinated by her own natural progression to dare interfere with it.

At present she knows pretty much all of the capital and small letters and the sounds they make. Only thing I can take credit for is occasionally reading alphabet books (*very* occasionally) and providing her with an alphabet puzzle. She just learns SO fast that this has been enough. Now that she's in school, she is of course "learning" letters, but it's mostly just total review. She already knew them.

She has also begun rhyming non stop. All day long sometimes I hear things like "Leaf and beef... THOSE RHYME!"

Additionally, she is identifying the first and last sounds of words on a regular basis. "Dddd - D is for door" ... a pause... "and Rrrrr is the end sound - R". She still has a much harder time coming up with middle sounds, especially on one syllable words. I think the vowel just blends in with the consonant in her mind still. However on 2 syllable words such as butter, she can easily pick out the middle consonant sound.

She is very eager to read - actually thinks in the last few days that she *can* read because she has memorized this easy reader from school as well as mostly memorized a few longer stories we have.

Soon I think.... sometime in the next handful of months, just as rhyming and beginning/end sounds have clicked fully all of a sudden, the concept of blending those individual letter sounds into words will click as well. And then she'll be reading up a storm!!

Other skills she's learning - she is constantly doing math on her fingers, mostly addition. And she's finally interested in writing. For a long time she wanted to know the letters, but had no interest in writing them. Lately she takes construction paper, makes lines across it and then fills in the lines with letters. Various little pictures adorn the sides of the page. It's her first book, she tells me, and she's torn between giving it away for free to the little girl in Guatemala that we help support, or selling it.

Conversation About Our Doctor

Mommy isn't Dr ____ amazing because he can help people who are almost dead! How does he do that?"

"I don't know. You have to go to medical school to learn about that."

"Yeah, and he can even fix broken bones when they are sticking out of someone's skin. How does he do that?"

"I don't know. I didn't go to medical school. You can go to medical school someday if you want to learn all about that stuff." (wondering where in the world the idea of a broken bone sticking out of someone's skin came from....)

"No, I don't think that would be very fun...."

She's WAY Too Smart!

Ok, so my 4 yr old is psychoanalyzing herself and using metaphors (or actually it was a simile if we must be technical...)

She's still getting used to the transition from being with all the kids in school to being with just Mommy again. "I'm still trying to figure out which I like best - being with all the kids, or being with Mommy."

I explained that she could like both best at different times or like them both the same.

She pipes up from the back seat, face intense and hands going a mile per minute

"It's just confusing.... I feel like I'm over here, out my window and over there out your window all at the same time because it's so confusing. I'm still trying to sort it all out!"

LOVE her!!!

Wednesday, September 30, 2009

My Little Poet

This morning on the way to school, I pointed out to Helena how pretty all of the trees looked with their colorful autumn leaves.

"They are making poetry and rhymes Mommy. Do you hear them?" she asked.

"I do. What are they saying?"

"They are saying "Once there was a goose/That ate couscous."

LOVE IT - she cracks me up!!

Thursday, September 24, 2009

July 15'th 2009












Our sweet little Helena's 4th birthday! We'd had a party at Grammies the prior weekend, but Daddy took the actual day off and we all headed up to one of Helena's favorite places for lunch, fun in the park and a carousol ride. Helena got a new dress out of the deal by spilling smoothie all over the one she started off in haha.

Farmer's Museum















Helena loves all things old fashioned and farm related, so she had a blast here! She took the picture of me in the one room schoolhouse, and then I took a picture of her "lecturing" the class haha. She thought that was so much fun! She also loved the beautiful old carousal, but her favorite, much to my surprise was the apothecary's shop. She thought grinding mint with the mortar and pestle, while occasionally making yucky faces at the leaches, was just the best!

Helena's 4th Birthday Party










Grammie hosted Helena's birthday party this year and we were so happy to have all the cousins able to attend too! The kids were all adorable and had such a lovely time playing together. Grammie had wonderful little party favors for them - bubbles and punch balls. Helena had her favorite: pineapple carrot cake with cream cheese frosting - made with whole wheat pastry flour and sweetened with maple syrup. Very yummy! Oh, and of course spaghetti for the meal...